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Monday, 8 June 2009

Today is not a good news day...

With Sue back in the UK, it meant that she would get to see all her family members, including our dog, Tara, who was enjoying the life of luxury being pampered by Sue's Mum at her house. Tara could want for nothing, especially when it came to enjoying the left-overs of a traditional Sunday roast complete with a splash of gravy over some mashed potato remains. A walk meant "Snowy" - Sue's Dad, taking her up the woods for a nicely paced walk, then wandering back home to sprawl out in front of the sofa with little care in the world, and dream of chasing cats.

Tara was beginning to show her age. 11 years is a long time in Cavalier King Charels spaniel terms. Normally, the average age is around 8-9 years. We decided early on, that a life in Korea would have been too much for her, and the thought of her being cooped up in an apartment was not the life for any dog, regardless of how mobile they were. A big back garden with grass and plenty of dickie birds to chase round would be much more fun, along with a loving couple who would look after her in her golden years.

Sue arrived back in the UK to find Tara was starting to lose her fur a bit on her back. I suggested taking her to the vets to see if she maybe had a skin condition, that could be easily sorted with some medicated shampoo etc. The vets took bloods etc to find the cause, but over the weekend, she started going downhill fast. She had some sort of fit, and lolled around for a bit before recovering. The resulting call to the vets on Monday told us the worst. She had some disease of the blood, started to have kidney failure, had wobbly teeth, and was bit unsteady on her paws. The inevitable decision had to be made, and it was made with all the right reasons - even the vet agreed it would be the best thing. Any treatment would lead to other complications, and would not have been in the best interests for Tara.

Sue stayed with Tara until the end, making sure her last moments were with someone who loved her, and was sure the love was returned. She went very peacefully, and is no doubt enjoying running amock in doggy heaven chasing as many dickie birds and barking at the waves by the seaside to her hearts content.

I wish I was there for Sue, and to have been able to hold her hand when she gave Tara a peaceful end Alex was there - thanks kiddo. Thanks also to Joyce and Wlf (Snowy) for looking after her for us - she loved you too.

We'll miss you Tara (Bark Bark, Woof Grrr - good girl!)

3 comments:

  1. My heart is aching for you and Sue. Even though you know it is the best for you beloved pet, doesn't help you miss their unconditional love any less.
    Tears, love, hugs,
    Sherrie

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  2. Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

    When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
    There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
    There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

    All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
    The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

    They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

    You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

    Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

    Author unknown...

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  3. Thanks Sherrie, that was so sweet.

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